Just bought a new house, well, a house anyway. Moved in. 3 br 2 b. small, but perfect. Notes are 150.00 less than rent. Something has to be done about housing. No way they are worth what you pay for them. But, life is getting much better. I think, maybe, I'm ready for some adult exercise now. Lol. Won't be but about another year, I'd say, and I'll be back to my normal asshole self. ;D
Try it before you buy it I'd say, next time marriage comes up, say lets live together for 4 or 5 years, by that time you will know what she is all about. I lived with my wife 8 years before marrying her, and have been married to her for 22.5 years now. Been a total of 30.5 years with this woman and never found a better one in all the years before. (or since)
I was married to one like you just got rid of myself, divorced her when she was pregnant with another mans baby. Took me a long time to warm up to marriage, but after 8 years with this woman, (which showed up several years later than my divorce), I did it finally, and never regretted it.
Dated my chick for less than a year. Been married 15 years. But do always try the milk before you get the cow! At any rate, she's the only one for me. Had a lot of other girls and none of them ever held a candle to my girl. Not interested in anyone else. She knows exactly how to keep me happy as I do for her. It's what you make of it.
We've had our ups and downs. But the fact that she's been there for so many downs and could have left but didn't.....well that makes me love her more.
I can't say for certain, but, I have no desire for marriage again, ever. Not so much because I now hate marriage or whatever, but because at my age I can't afford another divorce and start over shit again.
I think marriage requires work by both involved. I have no desire to work on a relationship. I think it should just be. I don't want anymore of these sit down and talk bullshit, or go to a movie and eat something when Robert Cray is playing at a bar in town.... I just don't want all that drama shit anymore. I want pussy from time to time but I'm not sacrificing anything to get it. I can live without the shit. Especially the shit attached to the pussy. ;D
It's sad to say, but marriage, from a mans point of view, should be considered a business decision. Women have wanted to vote, they got it, they wanted equal status in the workforce, they got it. Problem is, when it comes to divorce, the divorce courts haven't adapted to the times.
The other thing is, today's women, imo, aren't worth a goddamn shit. They use fucking kids to their benefit and are always looking for the next best thing. There is no morals anymore. Society thinks, and it may be true to a degree from a scientific point of view, that kids will be just fine after their parents divorce. I think thats bullshit. I think kids are born with the right to be raised and loved by their parents in a stable home and the goddamn parents are responsible to honor their right. If they are a little unhappy in the marriage and have kids, tough fucking shit. Get help with it from a professional or shut the fuck up and be a good spouse whether your happy or not. Fuck your little feelings, kids come first.
See, I get to talking about that shit and change my mind during the damn post. Fuck marriage, to hell with women. ;D ;D ;D
Never been married, never will. I've been saying that for over 30 years and at my age I believe I will make it. I have had several long relationships that ended in despair so that I no longer want to deal with it all. After a decade of no relationships, I have had a girlfriend for nearly 3 years. No talk about marriage from either of us.
She comes over every other weekend and I go over there the same according to her teenage kid's schedule with their divorced father. We talk on the phone once or twice a week and text goodnight most every night.
Hardly any fights whatsoever. All is good for now and hopefully in the foreseeable future. If things go south then I will humbly bow out and enjoy the freedom of aloneness. Nothing wrong with too much time on your hands (contradicting STYX's song).
In any event, I hope it all works out for those who may be experiencing lady troubles.