The Watering Hole

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You all know what our family has been going through lately.  My dad died 4 weeks ago last Saturday.  My mother has not been feeling well, having pain in her stomach and trouble breathing.  The doctor said it was probably just stress.  If finally got so bad that he scheduled her in for a Cat scan last Wednesday.  By then she was having sharp pains in her side, she couldn't eat, and she couldn't hardly breathe.   When she left the appointment, he told her that if she didn't get any better before he got the tests back to go to the emergency room.  By Wednesday night, it was so bad that she did go to the emergency room.  

Her doctor met her there with the cat scan.  He said there was a softball sized mass on her ovary, and that they needed to do surgery right away.  Thursday morning, while we were at the hospital, they said she had fluid surrounding her lungs, so the doctor drained it.  She immediately felt much better and was able to start breathing normally again.  Probably because they got 1.5 liters of fluid from around her lungs!  

The surgery was Saturday morning (4 weeks to the day after my dad died).  They removed the mass, along with her ovaries and several other things.  The diagnosis:  Stage 4 ovarian cancer.  He doctor said that it was all over in her abdominal area, but the good news was that it had not yet gotten into any of the major organs, but it was "surrounding them all."  

She is in Intensive Care but is doing much better and they just told us they are moving her to a regular room in the cancer section this evening.  She is going to get one chemo treatment while she is there, and they hope to have her home by this weekend.  She'll then continue her chemo treatments  every three weeks.  When we asked her doctor point blank, she said "we can not cure this, but hopefully the chemo can slow it down."  

My mom (like dad) has been very healthy.  The last time she was in the hospital was for gall bladder surgery, 18 years ago.  

What is next?   :o :o
Howie, man so sorry to hear this...

Hang tough, we are thinking about you.

Richard & S. Lee
Hang in there Howie...  Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Tough times man, wish you all the best.
Man !!! You're strong to resist at such bad news. All my thoughts, buddy ...
Speechless, man. Wishing you all the best... and if theres anything I can do, don't hesitate to ask... So sorry, man.  :'(
Man, that is a kick to the head.  Many prayers to you and your family Howie.
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Sorry to hear this mate. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Sorry to hear this Howie. All our best wishes.
man... sorry to hear this - best wishes to you and yours.
Howie I sincerely hope that your mom recovers and lives well for a long time. Hang in there amigo and do all you can to show her you love her.
A sincere thanks to all for your thoughts, wishes and prayers.  I'm kind of a zombie right now.  Getting numb I guess.  Anyway, thanks guys!!!  
Oh my god I just read this.
I'm shocked to hear this bro.

I'll send you a mail soon, sorry I'm in the middle of a move right now and have very limited access to a computer or the net in general.

Howie, I wish you all the strength and courage in the world for this.
I'll pray for you and your mom.

Hang in there...
All the best bro
That's so sad, man. Here's hoping for one of those statistically-rare events that some call "miracles". :)

Tripper
Thanks Chris.  

Tripper, yeah, exactly what I've been doing, is "meditating for a statistically rare event."   ;)

Thanks again to everyone.  
My prayers are with you brother.