My fate will be determined at 2pm tomorrow. Talk with the attorney. And, I got a women attorney. ;D Who knows a women better than a women, right?
Pray, wish like a mother-fucker my ass is given good news, talk to that fat bald headed dude with a red dot on his head, whatever. No offense of course. Just do the wish me luck thing. ;D
Update: I'm in a apartment for 3 days now siting on a recliner watching a tv with nothing in the apartment. Tomorrow, I'm having furniture delivered. All real wood stuff, no cheap shit, I want it to last. Next week, all the little look good stuff. Date with a blond, blue eyed girl Thursday.
I'll create happiness. I won't sit and wait for it. My wife told me she wasn't interested in what 45 year old guys are. She was 35. I guess 27 year old girls are. ;)
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I will win this battle. I'll be better off for it!!
Got any compromising pics of her?
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Not yet. ;D ;D
Damn. This girl has the most beautiful blue eyes I've ever seen. I had to ask her if they were her real eye color. Amazing.
All I need now is a computer desk and decorative things here and there and the pad will be finished. I think I'll go buy the end tables that matches the tv stand thing next week. Need some fucking plants or something in here. Fake ones or something lively. In time.
Hookbender — Mar 20, 2012Not yet. ;D ;D
No, I was talking about the soon-to-be-ex...
The new girl sounds hot. How'd you make that happen? You still got game, my man.
After having 2 kids, you don't want to see her without clothes on. ;D Her boobs are hangin pretty low and if you want to know how her ass feels.... stick your hand in a big jar of Jelly and make a fist. ;D ;D ;D
The girl actually rented me the apartment I'm in. Just commented on her eyes, several times, and a little BS stuff. The first time I talked to her the apartment was one price, the second time the price went up $50 bucks. So, I told her I wanted to take her to lunch or dinner or something so I could get more time with her eyes but the first $50 bucks of this date was on her. ;D ;D She ate it up. So, we'll see.
Well, my wife's new love dumped that ass and now she's crying and wanting me back and shit. Of course. The only reason I would ever consider is for my 2 girls. She's almost in beg mode. Crying, check..... I made a mistake, check.... all that shit.
I love my girls more than anything. I could just see me showing up on a Saturday morning and waking them up moving stuff back in. That smile would be worth it.
After thinking about it for almost 2 weeks. I can't do it. The bitch refuses to get real help with her first, then us second. She thinks we can fix it. Fuck her. I'm out. This would just set up another split and more drama again in the future for the girls. I told her to fuck herself. Wrong? Right?
Never been married nor have kids so my opinion is probably moot.
I have in been in relationships that spanned a decade or more with less than acceptable results. Recently I have been dating a woman for two + years with two teenage children and that has been somewhat of an eye opener but she is really a great person far removed from others that I have dated. I love her but I have decided long ago that marriage is not for me.
From past experiences, I think you did the right thing. Yes, being with your children full time would have to be total bliss. But if there is any doubt in your mind about forever erasing bad times of the past then I think you made the right decision.
Good luck with what you decide.
I wouldn't have her back, no way. Too much water under the bridge and she will probably do it again when the next one comes along. You dodged a bullet there I think !
I just can't help thinking, in the back of my mind, that I'm somehow saying no to my girls as well. I just hope I'm not making a mistake as far as they are concerned.
I hear what you're saying, but you would be setting yourself up for a life of misery and regret in my opinion and of course that atmosphere and environment would rub-off on your girls to. BUT...at the end of the day it's only you that can make the choice. Good luck whichever way you roll.