desertbluesman — Jun 28, 2009[quote author=Hookbender link=1246034134/0#18 date=1246166123]But can you really blame these men for having problems? They had no life at all except the short lived one on stage. They can't leave their home, for any reason. Media right outside their house damn near 24-7. Shit, I'd rather be middle class than have all the money in the world and not be able to enjoy it. That would be horrible. Probably as bad as being poor with the exception of the food you eat and clothes you wear.
You got it all wrong, I don't blame those men for anything. I am simply stating that they died from stupidity. Stupidity in how they treated their bodies, stupidity in not being able to control their feelings.
I am not demeaning them in any way I am simply stating a circumstance that I perceive as changeable in any human being
(If they wish to succeed in living a full and complete life).
No matter what circumstances they grew up in, they had the capacity to overcome them. They simply chose to indulge themselves instead of doing exercises in self control.
You see I consider my impending death my dearest friend and most revered teacher. I live a life of self control, watching what I put in my body, listening to my body for signs of distress, and modifying my habits to accommodate a healthier future, I actually believe I can extend my life beyond the point that I would have died if I kept up my bad habits, actually extend it by a few days, a few months, or even years perhaps. That is why I call those guys stupid, because the killed themselves with ignorance (stupidity)
I'm not trying to put words in your mouth. But just put yourself in their situation for a second.
Do you drink beer or anything every once in a while? If so, does that put you in their shoes? Are you stupid and unable to deal with your feelings?
I don't know about you, but if I were Elvis, or MJ, I'd be looking for an escape of some kind myself. They couldn't go anywhere in the world without all the media and crap.
They wanted to produce music. For that, they became a slave to it. Just because they were maybe the best.
How old are you, if you don't mind me asking? If your 60 plus years old it's natural for you to start worrying about your health. Even turn to the lordy because you feel death could be in the next 20 years or so.
If you've never been trapped as they were damn near all your life, it would be hard to judge their drug problems in the catagory of stupidity, imo. Now my misspelled words, that's a different story. ;D
What I fault MJ for is the child issues. That alone is not excusable.
Even if he's innocent, which I doubt, he put himself in the position himself. More than one time. And paid millions upon millions to settle cases which points to guilt, perhaps. Not that is stupidity. It's also a sick crime. One that would have landed anyone else in prison. He's a sick fucker, I have no pity on him.